Why use a Sex Therapist?
Stevan Gharu is a sex therapist and trained counselor who will help you get to the bottom of your issues in a private, secur and confidential manor.
The most common themes addressed in sex therapy are the lack of sexual arousal, the inability to reach orgasm & the inability to orgasm during intercourse.
In treating a lack of arousal, Stevan may prescribe specific techniques for awakening the body using energy massages with as little sexual contact as possible. You will then gradually progress to contact exercises that stimulate the entire body with touch, kisses, and massage, while focusing on each of the sensations experienced.
This phase can progress to playful genital contact, but without the pressure to go further. When the patient is ready, he or she is urged to practice oral pleasuring to whatever degree is acceptable. The goal is to allow any fears or inhibitions to surface & to be re-programmed. Eventually, the patient is urged to attempt intercourse with their partner, even if in gentle, limited stages.
Often the fact that the couple are "forbidden" to have sexual intercourse in the first few weeks of therapy in itself is sufficient motivation to increase the individuals interest in it. In a playful way this is the saying that "Forbidden Fruit always tastes the sweetest."
What can Stevan help with?
Some of the issues that Stevan can help you with are:
- Physical Sexual dysfunctions
- Helping you to "come out" with regards to sexuality issues such as being Gay, Lesbian, Bi-Sexual, Transvestite, Transsexual, Transgendered.
- Overcoming phobias & fears surrounding sex, safe sex techniques, safe, sane & consensual BDSM practice.
- Relationship Issues.
- Working closely with couples, singles, assisting in Sexual Therapy foreplay and intercourse.
Sexual & Spiritual healing can assist in releasing traumas, restore normal sexual/spiritual functioning, & release unhealthy inhibitions, guilt & shame. It can also encourage positive self-esteem & awaken unconditional love, self-worth physically, emotionally, mentally & spiritually. As we individually heal these restricting issues, Stevan believes we do so for all humanity.
Experiencing Relationship Problems?
Frequently patients attend for Sex therapy with Stevan because they are experiencing difficulties in their relationship. Stevan is a trained relationship counsellor.
Stevan has worked and studied with couples all over the world India, Canada, and the U.K. In India Stevan studied the Karma Sutra under the guidance of a Guru, and has knowledge in both Sexual Relations and Sexual support. He also helps couples whose marriages are in crisis to either revitalize their marriage or to admit that there is nothing left to save and so usually an amicable divorce would ensue.
He brings all these skills & experiences to his Sex therapy work meaning that even if there are no problems Stevan can still help you to reignite the Romance & Passion of the early years of your relationship, before children, careers & worries got in the way of your enjoying Sacred Sexuality with your partner.
Stevan's Sexual healing may be defined as "awakening a person's desire to feel alive & awakening the sensual self, without the usual shame or hidden agendas."Stevan as a complementary therapist offers all patients unconditional love & acceptance, activating a deep potential for healing. He believes that performing "random acts of kindness" & not being attached to the outcome can bring about the most profound healing experience. In a broad sense, by offering this type of sexual therapy Stevan believes that gestures as simple as giving a compliment or appreciating someone's value, become another aspect of therapy as he is assisting in activating a person's will to live-potentially blissfully.
Skype Sessions for your convenience
Sex therapy is also available via Skype so our patients can then access appropriate healing in a time & space convenient to you. For a confidential chat about Sexual & Spiritual Healing & Sex Therapy call Stevan today & start your journey of Sexual Awakening.